The question was asked as to why POCs are so homophobic and even fearful of sexual polarities in general other than the basic homosexual polarities.
So while some were talking (in a swingers group) about male anal stimulation and the suspect nature of a man being on a DL if they fetishize about that act. I had to express a deeper explanation of sexual polarities in general and the general nature of common people in todays new world exposure...
Actually the issue here is education more than suspect nature.
In our culture as People of Color, we tend to be very miseducated in advanced sexual nature. So for many all they know is hetro or homo. And nothing in between or any exceptions. Part of that problem is because of the structure of organized religion culturally. Take Eddie Long for instance. While he KNOWS what he is doing to some degree, he also KNOWS that the structure that he is conditioned from demands that what he KNOWS and FEELS is NEVER to be exposed to COMMON MAN. Because up until this century, advanced sexual education was ONLY exposed to mystics and monarks of society. So all of these sexual lifestyles were secrets that were held as indulgences ONLY for the high and mighty. And that means everything above heterosexual missionary sexual contact. So everything including swinging to BDSM to descriptions of sexual polarities were all taboo to common man. THAT is the deep part of the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. Because the BIGGEST sin was sexual deviance and over exposure of ignorance as to the spiritual powers and responsibilities connected to the act of sex it's self and GODs desire to be included i ever act in a positive nature. So homosexuality was not as much of a sin unless the parties involved disrespected the basic laws of human nature. And ALL of that was too deep for common man to have THAT much air and opportunity to spitefully and selfishly indulge in sexual deviance without remorse. Kinda like the way we are NOW starting to indulge in sexual deviance today due to exposure of the internet but fail to respect the basic conditions as to why each act has a purpose ad conditions as to why they exist. So commoners are now jumping into these advanced sexual lifestyles with no respect or concern for anyone but their own desire to selfishly explore a act that it too spiritually powerful for them to handle and they are preying on others more than having any concern for the possibility that they may harm others in their quest for entertaining mindless deviancy.
So in short...
NO ACT between man and woman (loving partners) in a loving relationship is a sin in theory.
PROBLEM is?
Sex is a powerful act that creates the SAME effect as DRUGS in the mind and even in souls of human beings rather they have become upper metaphysically educated as to dangers and responsibilities involved with these evolutionary acts or not! And in the case of "prostrate milking" and male anal exposure? Up until as of late, THAT ACT was ONLY reserved for trained Doctors for medicinal purposes! And for the few advanced practitioners who can safely explore that act for entertainment purposes.
And it gets deeper!
Because even the POPE stated in his Christmas address last year that "back in his day sexual deviance including pedophilia was NO BIG DEAL".... And many found great offense in his statement without consideration of WHERE his views of recollection stemmed from. Mostly due to the basic moral conditioning that the common religious populace has been educated under.
Mind you, the history of the Egyptians, Romans and the Greeks to state a few, have ALL noted the ART of Erotic indulgence by Royals, Mystics, Nobels, Craftsmen and Socialites in the community. Even the gladiators and the military were recorded and even somehow excused for their homosexual conduct with each other WITHOUT judgement of being lessor of a MAN or Woman/lady respectfully.
While the ONLY recording in our history of the common people being exposed and engulfed in deviant sexual nature was in the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. And in THAT example the moral of THAT story was how the masses of lower classes abused THAT freedom that was expected to include greater responsibility as well as Spiritual REASONING behind each and every indulgence and sexual act personally. And what resulted was a loss of social concern for anyone and a selfish corrupt nature by common man that resulted in the need for the whole populace to be destroyed due to the severity of blasphemy by the common people as a whole.
Not because of the expression of homosexual nature. But because of the lack of education and purpose of basic sexuality and the spiritual concern for positive relations between respectful partners as to cautious conduct with such a powerful act of sexual experimentation.
So in theory, the act of mindless predatory terrorism and premeditated sexual assault by the masses became the HOLY OFFENSE when the common people of Sodom and Gomorrah desired and even demanded the intent to RAPE the two angels that were sent to Sodom and Gomorrah to protect Abraham's nephew, Lot.
http://www.gotquestions.org/Sodom-and-Gomorrah.html
#### "The biblical account of Sodom and Gomorrah is recorded in Genesis chapters 18-19. Genesis chapter 18 records the Lord and two angels coming to speak with Abraham. The Lord informed Abraham that "the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is so great and their sin so grievous." Verses 22-33 record Abraham pleading with the Lord to have mercy on Sodom and Gomorrah because Abraham's nephew, Lot, and his family lived in Sodom."
#### "Genesis chapter 19 records the two angels, disguised as human men, visiting Sodom and Gomorrah. Lot met the angels in the city square and urged them to stay at his house. The angels agreed. The Bible then informs us, "Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom — both young and old — surrounded the house. They called to Lot, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them.'" The angels then proceed to blind all the men of Sodom and Gomorrah and urge Lot and his family to flee from the cities to escape the wrath that God was about to deliver. Lot and his family flee the city, and then "the LORD rained down burning sulfur on Sodom and Gomorrah — from the LORD out of the heavens. Thus he overthrew those cities and the entire plain, including all those living in the cities..."
#### "In light of the passage, the most common response to the question "What was the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah?" is that it was homosexuality. That is how the term "sodomy" came to be used to refer to anal sex between two men, whether consensual or forced. Clearly, homosexuality was part of why God destroyed the two cities. The men of Sodom and Gomorrah wanted to perform homosexual gang rape on the two angels (who were disguised as men). At the same time, it is not biblical to say that homosexuality was the exclusive reason why God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah. The cities of Sodom and Gomorrah were definitely not exclusive in terms of the sins in which they indulged."
#### "Ezekiel 16:49-50 declares, "Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me..." The Hebrew word translated "detestable" refers to something that is morally disgusting and is the exact same word used in Leviticus 18:22 that refers to homosexuality as an "abomination." Similarly, Jude 7 declares, "...Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion." So, again, while homosexuality was not the only sin in which the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah indulged, it does appear to be the primary reason for the destruction of the cities."
I digress...
The REASON for My biblical inclusion of these quotes are to better express the actual instinct of the common people of Sodom and Gomorrah and why they were destroyed more than how many follow the cliff notes of the folklore they have been religiously conditioned to believe today...
Now why is THIS so important?
It's more important TODAY more than ever because THIS lesson has been FORBIDDEN to be explained to the commoners of society that BECAUSE of Sodom and Gomorrah it has been feared that IF religious practitioners were to attempt to explain this reality to the common populace? Solely because of their intelligence as a whole and their possibility to neglect such a freedom to explore these advanced sexual acts will cause the same massive corruption that occurred during Sodom and Gomorrah.
And up until this century and the invention of the World Wide Web?
This theory was demanded to be taboo to common man for their own good!
But NOW we are facing a new problem in our societies again.
NOW organized religion is not faced with a greater conflict.
The ability to enlighten ALL of the masses after suppressing so many advanced freedoms that have been ONLY reserved for upper metaphysically educated responsible may cause the total collapse of organized religion as a whole out of spite!
Thus the issue that people like Eddie Long, and The Pope, and so many others who have seemed to have felt excused in their conduct that they have preached to be sinful to the masses and yet been found out to have been following a conflictive inexcusable lifestyle that they are permitted to explain after exposed because THAT would mean that THEY would have to explain the deeper definitions of every sexual polarity and how and WHERE it is expressed and the conditions of ALL of it, to everyone. No matter if they want to believe it or not!
And THAT is not going to happen because that would mean that EVERY secret that many darker orders have hidden from the common man will also HAVE to be exposed as well.
And the common man in todays society can NOT handle THAT much enlightenment at this point in their impression of humanity as a whole. From what they have been manipulated to believe for their own safety in theory. But what many will consider a total insult to their intelligence.
Because SEX is the MOST powerful and unexplained act in humanity next to pain and death.
The upper metaphysical nature of such mystical power and responsibility as well as control and enlightenment would require everyone to be educated in the arts of Karma Sutra, Tantra, Chakras, and meditative yoga as well as martial arts as well as psychology and Biology JUST to be qualified to better understand the importance of respecting the act of sex to be NOTHING TO FUCK WITH in general.
And at this point in our awareness in this new world?
The basic conflicts that common man has with trying to understand their own personal sexual polarity and mental stability to be able to indulge in these advanced sexual lifestyles seem too difficult to consider studying FIRST before exploring the temptations of the flesh with a sound mind and a respectable responsibility to include their spiritual powers in a positive manner as to not harm each other or cause a act of extreem sin for abusing such a powerful act for mindless selfish reasons..
And being that todays general populace is NOT able to erase their personal impression of miseducated morality as a whole without the feeling of loosing their whole spirituality and identity?
The ability to inform and educate the masses of people who NOW find themselves drawn to these advanced sexual lifestyles that were once manipulated by their organized belief structure to enforce a MASS IGNORANCE for the common good of society is WAY TOO MUCH to handle without causing them to NOT include their spirituality as the driving force in their sexual desires.
And THAT means without judgement of others as well.
THAT is what BDSM actually is about in theory.
The respect and understanding of sexual polarities and every fetish known to mankind, respectfully.
(including the ones others find offensive and distasteful)
THAT is still too conflictive for the common man in society to excuse and respect towards others who may seem driven towards a darker and scarier personal fetish.
THAT is the difference in what the 1% of power feels empowered to indulge in that the 99% can not stomach to imagine how they can get away with such a privilege without feeling they are sinful to humanity.
And THAT includes polygamy, swinging, pedophilia, homosexuality, beastiality(sp), and every other fetish, sexual polarity and relationship dynamic that demands a different responsibility as to HOW they can afford to indulge into something that common man can not afford respectfully or have to explain to insignificant bystanders and low life's.
This new found investigative freedom of information of the masses of commoners and "normal" simple minded people is causing a great deal of corruptive nature to our basic family values as well as confusion to many common people in society who NOW feel the ability to indulge into sexual acts that were once considered TABOO in nature and even sinful by the standards set by organized religion as a whole.
So it's not as simple as homosexuality, bisexuality or heterosexuality now.
Now we have even deeper sexual polarities like Alpha, beta, and omega types.
We have Tops and Bottoms and fetishist.
We have mental conditions and tramas in our histories that are connected to our philia's and phobias.
All of these deeper identities demand that we KNOW exactly who and how we are and how we are not.
And NONE of these should change our personal image as whom we are.
So a man who loves his ass probed should never be questioned as to his sexuality no more than a man who cross dresses should never be questioned as well.
Nor should a homosexual, transsexual, lesbian or bisexual person ever be questioned as to their humanity or stability to be judged by their character no more than the color or culture.
And these adult sexual lifestyles SHOULD Be safe havens for all that understand and respect adult sexuality and sexual polarities and fetishes as a whole. So that no one has the right to judge another or feel uncomfortable being around others unlike themselves socially.
But this shit is TOO NEW and TOO DEEP for too many common people to understand WHY they have no choice but to keep their personal insecurities to themselves enough to embrace a sense of unity as a lifestyle community at large.
Just the over indulgence and temptation and freedom to explore so many of these sexual indulgences has cause too many simple minded people to abuse the basic concern for others for their own selfish desires and even ignorant selfish addictions and predatory instincts.
And THAT is and has been the Dangerous element of these Adult Sexual lifestyles today!
Because ignorance is TOO EASY to embarace but too uncomfortably shameful to admit when the pride of simple minds find themselves stuck having to face enlightenment and reality that is too strange to respect more than the risk of failure.
It's not JUST human nature.
It's because basic HUMAN NATURE is NOT what we have been conditioned to be allowed to believe as common people in todays society. Because OUR society as it has been STRUCTURED through organized religion that has manipulated the mindset of the masses of populations of civilizations for THEIR OWN PROTECTION respectfully has now become the most difficult conflict with our ability to enlighten ourselves enough to better explore these adult sexual lifestyles without guilt, shame, or fear of sin.
And we can not handle THAT much truth!
Because we can not handle THAT much responsibility to NOT rebel from the only spiritual faith base we have ever known to date.
And already too many people have grown to HATE organized religion for more reasons than they have the ability to excuse them for, now that they have the ability to see why they HAD to protect the masses from becoming another Sodom and Gomorrah!
And now here we stand together as a newly connected WORLD image still suffering manipulated ignorance and racism and folklore that once was for our own good in the smaller hoods we have evolved from today.
And the MOST uncomfortable truth and enlightenment that we all face in this civilized world as it stands today is sex and sexual polarity and how ONLY when we are able to educate ourselves fully into the deeper darker reality that has been hidden from us for thousands of years?
We MAY be able to better understand WHY Jesus Himself refrained from sex for a greater purpose in his teachings of spiritual enlightenment that ended up causing western civilizations to divide into conflicting beliefs in order to keep certain order and civil structure of the masses before we found ourselves where we all are in this New World Order of the Ages...
### "Enlightenment comes at a price. You have to shed your most profound beliefs, give up the props that keep you going each day, and arrive at a place where "you" does not exist. You are no longer playing a role in the theater, and you are no longer even in the theater because the theater too is an illusion. This is not a happy thing, enlightenment."
THAT price!
Is too deep and too dark for the civilized common man/woman to be expected to handle and respect over the reality that will no longer exist as soon as you become enlightened.
Sex is a act that creates a spiritual explosion of energy and light that can be the most powerful energy a human can posses or express once Mastered and understood.
If you can not include the highest form of your spiritual beliefs in your indulgence in the act of sex?
All your doing is fucking for no reason.
And too many of us have been created out of shame and ignorance of mindless sexual indulgence and selfish addiction that the basic product of such a act suffers more until it is able to do better for the next generation of blessings that are ONLY made by having sex!
The intent of the New World Order is to enlighten the masses so that they may peacefully evolve into a more enlightened state of a NEW WORLD REALITY of the masses respectfully.
But we can NOT learn enough from our history to no longer repeat it.
Because we have been too conditioned to defend what history we think has made us who we are today.
And we do not fully KNOW who we are as individuals because our sexual polarity is a part of our ever evolving DNA.
THAT requires a NEW MATH mentality.
What makes us most human is what made us and how we were made.
SEX is the most important part of our humanity.
And still the most uncomfortably taboo topic to handle as adults.
ta·boo [tuh-boo, ta-] adjective, noun, plural ta·boos, verb, ta·booed, ta·boo·ing.
adjective
1.
proscribed by society as improper or unacceptable: Taboo language is usually bleeped on TV. Synonyms: prohibited, banned, forbidden, proscribed. Antonyms: allowed, permitted, permissible; sanctioned.
2.
prohibited or excluded from use or practice: In art school, painting from photographs was taboo.
3.
(among the Polynesians and other peoples of the South Pacific) separated or set apart as sacred; forbidden for general use; placed under a prohibition or ban. Synonyms: sacrosanct, inviolable.
noun
4.
a prohibition or interdiction of anything; exclusion from use or practice. Synonyms: ban, proscription, embargo, interdiction; no-no.
5.
(among the Polynesians and other peoples of the South Pacific)
a.
the system, practice, or act whereby things are set apart as sacred, forbidden for general use, or placed under a prohibition or interdiction.
b.
the condition of being so set apart, forbidden, or interdicted.
6.
exclusion from social relations; ostracism.
verb (used with object)
7.
to put under a taboo; prohibit or forbid. Synonyms: prohibit, ban, forbid, proscribe. Antonyms: allow, permit, sanction.
8.
to ostracize (a person, group, etc.): While he is tabooed, no one may speak to him.
Also, tabu.
### Sex between loving and caring adults should NEVER be taboo.
The story of Adam and eve revolved around the tree of knowledge.
With great knowledge comes great responsibility.
Know thy self.
First.
.
respect
